The key to manifestation that so many people overlook is healing. Yet it’s the most obvious answer. Let me break it down for you.
Manifestation Isn’t Just Wishing
Manifestation isn’t just praying, visualizing, or hoping something will happen. If you’ve looked up manifestation online, you’ve probably seen everyone talking about sitting in the energy of already having what you want. You obviously can’t sit in fear, lack, or unworthiness and expect what you desire to come to you.
Manifestation is about more than just believing it will happen. It’s about energetically aligning with the reality you’re calling in. The universe works on energy, vibration, and frequency, so when your energy is in alignment, what you desire naturally comes to you.
Energy Doesn’t Lie
Here’s the catch: you might consciously think you’re projecting worthiness and abundance, but you can’t fool the universe. Energy doesn’t lie.
You might be saying to yourself, “I’m grateful, happy, and abundant; it will come to me.” But if, deep down, subconsciously, you believe you’re unworthy, stuck in lack, or afraid, it won’t happen, that’s the energy you’re truly emitting. Subconscious fears and limiting beliefs can hold you in a lower frequency, no matter what you’re saying out loud.
Healing Aligns Your Energy
This is where healing changes everything. When you do the inner work to release negative self-talk, limiting beliefs, and old wounds, your energy naturally shifts. You step into peace, surrender, and self-love. This isn’t something you force—it’s something that happens when you heal.
From this place, gratitude, abundance, and happiness flow naturally. And this is the energy that brings your manifestations to life.
Be What You Want to Attract
Manifestation is about becoming. You have to embody the energy of what you desire. If you want abundance, heal your relationship with money. If you want love, heal your relationship with yourself. If you want happiness, heal the wounds keeping you in fear and lack.
This is how you step into the higher frequency required to attract the life you want. Otherwise, you’re just wishing and waiting, disconnected from your power to create.
Let me give you an example. You want a partner who’s communicative, self-aware, kind, vulnerable, and successful. That sounds amazing, right? But how can you sustain a relationship with someone like that if you’re not in alignment with those qualities yourself?
If they’re great at communication, but you shy away from hard conversations or react strongly from old wounds, you won’t be able to communicate effectively. If they’re open and vulnerable, but you still have walls up from past hurt, you’ll subconsciously keep them at arm’s length. If you don’t understand your own wounds, triggers, or limiting beliefs, you’ll struggle to connect with someone who does. It’s like trying to speak English to someone fluent in code, it just won’t work. Someone on that higher vibration wouldn’t even be able to come into your life because your vibration is too low.
The same principle applies to money. Wishing for wealth while sitting in fear, anxiety, or lack around money won’t bring abundance. If you’ve always believed money is hard to earn, that you have to scrape by, or that spending creates anxiety, that energy is blocking you.
Manifestation requires healing those money wounds. Ask yourself:
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Why do I feel anxious or fearful about money?
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Where did this belief come from?
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How can I start seeing money as a tool for freedom and abundance rather than something to fear?
When you shift how you think and feel about money, you open the door for abundance to flow in.
Taking Action
Manifestation isn’t passive. You can’t just wish your dream life into existence. You need to take actionable steps toward what you desire.
Think of it this way: if you want to win the lottery, you have to buy a ticket. If you want a promotion, you need to show up and do the work. If you want to start a business, you have to take the first step. If you want a relationship, you have to heal the relationship you have with yourself. The universe will meet you halfway, but you need to move in the direction of your desires.
You Are the Creator
When you decide what you truly want deep in your core—not what sounds fun or looks good to others, but what feels aligned with your soul—the universe begins conspiring to help you.
It’s almost like the universe places a dot on your timeline. There are multiple paths to reach that dot, and every step you take moves you closer. Each decision, action, and healing moment aligns you with the version of you who already has what you desire.
The beauty of life is that you’re never stuck. You can change your direction at any time. Healing helps you get unstuck from the matrix of fear, lack, and negativity. It allows you to step into the truth: you are the creator of your life.
Every step, every choice, every healing moment shapes your reality. There’s no limit to what you can create if you’re willing to do the work to heal and align with your desires. The only thing holding you back is you.
So, are you ready to heal your way to manifestation?
